The Dark Side of Blogging: Warnings From Leading Bloggers

By Michael Stelzner

There’s no question that the blogosphere is on fire. As the flames spread faster than anyone could have imagined, a virtual state of pandemonium has resulted.

Many businesses and individuals have leaped blindly into the blog pool. Countless bloggers have found the water a bit too chilly and have abandoned blogging altogether. Still others are barely keeping their heads above water as they grapple with the challenges of blogging.

Perhaps you are contemplating blogging? Maybe you are a blogger thinking of calling it quits?

Leading bloggers have some important warnings for you.

But first, how many bloggers are there?

How Big Is the Blogosphere?

At this very moment, dozens of new blogs just went online.

Here are the startling facts.

In April 2007, 1.4 million blog posts were written every day according to David Sifry, founder and CEO of blog tracking site Technorati. That’s more than 1,000 new entries every minute!

Enormous numbers of people are jumping into blogging. In Sifry’s The State of the Live Web report, he revealed that 120,000 new blogs are coming online daily.

With the mass adoption of blogging come some warnings that might surprise you.

Beware of the Addiction

For many people, blogging is an addiction that hinders their business and personal life.

“The temptation is to devote increasing amounts of time and mental energy to blogging without realizing that your efforts could be more profitably spent elsewhere,” explained Robert W. Bly, author of the new book Blog Schmog: The Truth About What Blogs Can (and Can’t) Do for Your Business.

Seth Godin, the world’s leading marketing blogger, echoes this sentiment, “If you have no editor, you don’t know when it’s done. If you have no boss, you can work too hard and do nothing else. If you don’t have a filter, you might not like what you hear back.”

Joi Sigers, owner of 14 blogs, explains, “You have to be on guard, because if you let it, blogging will claim more of your life than you should be willing to part with. You HAVE to ask yourself a few questions. Does my family see the back of my head more than the front? If my Internet connection was down for a week, would I TAKE A BREAK or BREAK DOWN?”

Ann Handley, chief content officer at MarketingProfs, says you know you are addicted when “You can’t watch a movie, see a play, read an article or share a sweet moment with your child without thinking of whether it’s blog-worthy.”

Not only is blogging dangerously addictive, it will also rapidly erode your free time.

Calculate the Commitment

Whether for hobby or for market advantage, blogging takes a great deal of time and personal commitment.

Pete Blackshaw, CMO of Neilson BuzzMetrics, said, “I love my blog and its topic, but frankly, I’m struggling to keep up. I’m just not cranking out content like I used to, and feel as if I’m contributing ‘too little, too late.’ I’m starting to freak about folks potentially sending unsubscribe pings my way, and I just can’t handle the thought of such rejection.”

Blackshaw explains, “Creating great and compelling online content takes real work and commitment.”

“I watch it happen around 4 to 6 months. The enthusiastic beginners start to realize that they have picked a blog topic that they aren’t really passionate about. Blogging every day becomes a chore,” explains Liz Strauss, author of Successful-Blog.com.

Strauss adds, blogging involves “having ideas, writing, revising, proofing and formatting. All of that takes time. It’s rewarding, but folks should really know that it doesn’t happen by itself.”

Ann Handley says, “It takes commitment. Blogs require constant care and feeding. Expect to spend a significant part of your time off of your own blog, trolling around other blogs–to build your own audience, raise your visibility and keep your ear to the ground.”

Bloggers often find their hard work rewarded by reader commentary.

Understand the Challenge of Comments

The currency of blogging is comments. Comments come in many flavors and often the ones you get are not what you were expecting.

“I was surprised when I started blogging that there were people submitting comment spam to my blog. These are people who wanted to use my blog real estate to generate links back to their websites,” said David Meerman Scott of WebInkNow.com.

Simplenomics.com blogger Mike Sigers says, “Most bloggers are faced with the reality of no comments right off the bat. The feeling that nobody cares what you write is what dooms 50% of the bloggers who quit. The other 50% find out that they really don’t have anything to say that’s worthwhile.”

Sigers also added, “Some people are going to be very negative and say ugly things to you and about you.”

Liz Strauss explains, “A journal without an audience isn’t as much fun anymore. When you first start blogging, you think it’s about you and the writing, but so quickly you find out it’s a participation sport. Once the thrill of hearing how people respond to and interpret what we say occurs, it’s hard to go back to writing entirely without feedback.”

Ann Handley advises, “Building an audience still happens the old-fashioned way, one reader at a time. Have patience.”

Lessons From Bloggers

During the time you read this article, hundreds of new blogs just came online. Most certainly hundreds more wrote their last post as well.

Despite all the warnings, bloggers can achieve great success if they are prepared for the trek.

First, remember that blogging can be as addictive as nicotine or alcohol. It has its highs and deep lows. Be sure you understand this before you start blogging.

Second, blogging can become your “other child.” Make sure you actually have time to raise up this new kid. Like children, seeing the results of blogging can take some time and effort.

Third, you will find that comments are what fuel your efforts. However, spammers will likely be your biggest fans. Understand that comments must be earned and mainly come from writing great content.

As Joi Sigers says, “Offline’s where the real living is! If someone comes to the realization that they don’t read as much as they once did, can’t remember the last movie the saw with their family, forget where they put their tennis racquet or suspect their family pet thinks they’re a stranger, it’s time to shift priorities.”

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  • I would certainly testify to blogging being an addictive job!
  • Blogging is an addictive job, but if you take in consideration that 120,000 blogs come to life everyday, you must ask yourself: why is that happening? Because people are feeling lonely... they need to communicate and blogging offers such a possibility... to connect through a blog with millions of people. The problem is that interpersonal communication has dropped in the past 10 years and computers are replacing our social life and that is why blogging is something addictive and can have negative effects.
  • I can relate to this. I am a freelance writer and I have a blog too. I love both, but it can really take over your life. I also wrote a similar article on the pros/cons of starting your own business, such as being a freelance writer.
  • Rather than an addiction, I would describe being a blogger the same way I would being a writer--it's like being in school and always having homework to think about, even on weekends or the middle of the night. You are never "done."

    I have a number of blogs and don't really care if I get comments or not...if I do, fine. But my mission is to give people little snacks for thought as they whiz along in life. On health--http://healthsass.blogspot.com -- I am Health's Ass. On the business of writing, http://www.writerscatablog.com, or even on the inner thoughts of two writers' loyal canine companion (http://scribblesthedog.wordpress.com). Fly by, read, maybe retain a syllable or two and be on your way. If I saved your life, tell me...otherwise, better luck next time.
  • Jeff;

    To your comment about someone fully taking your content and posting it on their blog.

    It is not legal.

    See this post: http://www.writingwhitepapers.com/blog/2007/05/03/contentjacking-the-new-cyber-crime/
    Mike
  • This is very interesting. I've only been reading you for a short while now, and I'm glad you included this in your "Top 10 Blog posts" otherwise I would never have found it. I'm a newly established blogger (at least on the topic of writing). I wonder if there are statistics on how many people make money off their blogs. Right now I don't and would never dream of it (not for any moral reasons, but how could I ever become that good?). Thus, I don't see why it would make any difference on whether a blog is completely reprinted elsewhere if it is fully cited. If people like it, it will attract them to your blog, otherwise they wouldn't stay for long anyway. Blog posts are posted completely free by the author for anyone to read. The only difference is where the article appears. At least this is how I see it right now. Keep up the great work!
  • Very interesting... I was just passing through so i thought i would say hi :)
    hi :)
    A webmasters reading is never done :P
    I added you to favorites so no doubt i will be back so keep it up
  • Michael-My favorite comment about one danger of blogging came from David Weinberger in a January 2006 interview with Rebecca Blood:

    Rebecca: How has your weblog changed your life?

    David: Blogging has made me fat. I used to exercise in the morning. Now I blog.

    Read the whole Bloggers on Blogging series at http://www.rebeccablood.net/essays/index.html#bloggerson.

    -Cathy
  • It occurs to me that successful people tend to become obsessively and compulsively focussed on whatever it is they have in their sights (sites?).

    So, it doesn't stretch the imagination to say that the people who get addicted by blogging are more likely to be successful than those who don't. Although, reading this back, I'm now worried that I'm not addicted enough.
  • Micke your stuff is really good, I have learnt alot from it.
  • Hi Cindy;

    Thanks for adding your insight to this discussion.

    All very good points!

    Mike
  • Found you through a mention by Deborah Ng over at About.. Going to come at this from these fingertips' perspective..

    As a disability (self-)advocate, I blog..

    Behind the cyber scenes, that translates into.. whenever my mind opens up, frees up to let me blog, basically, which inherently also translates universally to following up on blog posts and comment responses worldwide across the Net..

    Lack of follow-up to some will scream lack of interest, hit-n-run, whatever.. It's not.. It's additionally most definitely *not* a disrespect thing.. It's just Life walking in these shoes.. :)

    On blogging in the first place.. The angle I blog from is to use the activity as a venue to get information out there just that much further, something that's really catching on within that particular community in just the last few literally months, by the way..

    Within the dear circles I run these days, (the very real) fear of exposure, stigma, community retribution play into the part of those who are still debating taking that first plunge.. The bolder are empowering the bold right now.. The next wave will follow suit very soon..

    On those posts I do leave on my own blogs, I don't go so far as to monitor comments before posting.. Goes against self-advocating for free speech, oops :GRIN:..

    That said, I fully respect those who do monitor as it can be downright abusive out there.. The next best step in that case is to try requiring log-ins for comments, as this will certainly slow down the number of comments one receives.. (Hopefully) in the back of the minds would be that one can be traced back should they become too outrageously abusive..

    Regarding those who don't receive comments or more specifically secondary feedback, speaking as one who forgets where they're walking to as fast as they stand up out of the chair, a personal observation, prediction is that, as soon as more blog hosts present the option for surfers to receive follow-up comments to posts left (as I've noticed you have here, yayyyy), comment activity surely would pick up exponentially the way traffic to a website does if one sends out a regular newsletter.. Webmaster 101: Serves as irreplaceable reminders..

    Delving deeper and one re-finds that word "addiction".. People who are on the Internet *more than likely* are not holed up on one's single, solitary site, be it a blog or other.. They're out there visiting an untold number of others each day, each week.. Successful blogs, i.e. those who consider success being the number of comments generated, will always be those who find a creative way to say, "Hey, remember me..? Quick, quick.. Come back.. Look, look, look.. What do you think about what we've dug up this time..?" :)


    PS.. Speaking of newsletter sign-up, et al(l), to entice traffic back to one's blog, haven't yet seen anyone get too bent yet about something I discovered accidentally a few months back.. Disturbing to those who, minor detail, like to be the primaries of their own blood-n-sweated material since they were, gasp, the ones who lived the outrageous Lives that created it in the first place..? You just thought contentJacking got you bent out of shape.. ;)
  • You are right Meredith and it's not just beginners that fail to respond to folks that comment.

    No one like's putting a message in a bottle, which is what happens when no one responds...

    Thanks for stopping in.

    Mike
  • Michael,

    Another tip to add if you continue to explore this subject is something you do very well - bloggers need to respond to comments! I see many beginning bloggers who post the comments but don't respond. That interaction and exchange is the whole point! Well done. - Meredith
  • Jim
    Let's face it. We are nation of very neurotic, pressured people, who have in important ways forgotten how to live. Many of us have no real center, and there are a million ways we try to fill the void.
  • Katie - Thanks for your comments and for voicing them! - Mike
  • Thanks Michael,
    I've had a blogger copy one of mine, but at least it wasn't exactly the same. Just stole the idea. Think of it as a compliment. They liked it so much that they had to write about it. I just wish people would give credit to the original authors and that could be as simple as saying, "I saw John's blog and here's what I think."

    I think it would be great if instead of posting an exact copy, they went and commented on the blog they are replicating. Isn't that the point of a blog anyway? To open up a discussion about a given topic, rather than commenting for the hell of it like, "Hey Brian, great post, man." I like to think of blogging as an opportunity to flush out ideas.
  • Hi Pankaj - I can relate, trust me. I think new bloggers need to know what they are in for. - Mike
  • Great Post, Mike, I have forwarded the link of this post to my friends who contemplating about starting a blog. I think this should take them one step ahead in their decision making process.
    Well, I am new blogger myself and this post actually stated so many points (addiction, comments spam, time commitment etc) which I experienced myself in the initial state of blogging itself. But I am not discouraged and but at the same time I am careful as well.
  • Folks;

    We are having a related discussion to the dark side of blogging.

    The topic is contentjacking (someone else takes your content).

    See http://www.writingwhitepapers.com/blog/2007/05/03/contentjacking-the-new-cyber-crime/

    Welcome your thoughts on this.

    Mike
  • Whitney - Thanks for coming to my defense :) And thanks for stopping by. - Mike
  • Gee...if the comment "I always find it interesting when the “establishment,” in this case popular bloggers, try to warn off newcomers with tales of how difficult and perilous the journey is" was intended to lump Michael in that category, we're really barking up the wrong tree. Follow Michael long enough on his blog, e-mail him enough offline, and you'll find that he's simply not wired to be the unapproachable, unwelcoming sort. I've consistently found him to be nothing short of encouraging.

    Fully using the content of an entire article...even with clear attribution...enters the territory of reprint rights. If Michael had published the article in one print publication and another print publication wanted to publish it for their readers in its entirety, the 2nd publication would have to pay for the privilege. Depending on how reprint rights were addressed in the contract with the original publication, the writer or the original publisher would get the money.
  • Rajan - No harm no foul! Thanks for accommodating my wishes.

    Thanks for the credit and links also. However, when you fully copy all the content of a long article, that crosses the line in my opinion.

    Deb - Thanks for joining the discussion. I think "copyjacking" is becoming a big problem. Were other people fully steal the hard work of others.

    Mike
  • Deb
    Blogging is indeed an addiction, one I have no problem feeding. To me, the darkest side of blogging comes from the anonymous commenters. My rule of thumb is to never say anything online I wouldn't say in person. Sadly, the anonymity of the blogosphere turns many seemingly nice people into someone ugly.

    I also have problems with finding my content on other blogs without my permission, something I see getting worse before it gets better.

    Great post!

    Deb
  • Hi Michael, I’ve adjusted the post to not include your full article but an excerpt. Please note, that multiple links and credits were already in place to your article. I've seen both practices on the blogs I read (include excerpts or full article with appropriate accreditation). No infringement was intended, whatsoever. Not my style. Thought you wrote a good article, and wanted to pass it on to my audience.

    - Rajan
  • One of the other dark sides that I did not mention is folks that actually copy everything you write and post it on their website.

    Here is a case of this occurring with this very article.

    See http://bigmarketing.wordpress.com/2007/05/02/the-dark-side-of-blogging/

    Does this cross the line?

    Would it be more acceptable to simply excerpt portions of an article this big?

    Mike
  • Katie - Great point! Your comments are always welcome here. - Mike
  • Here's another one for your list:
    Don't be insulted when you comment on other blogs in your industry and they don't post it. Maybe it went to a spam folder. So, what do you do?
    I've found that there is a tight knit group in my industry and usually someone else will point out that very same blog you wanted so badly to comment on. So, comment there. They'll appreciate it.
  • Grigor and David - Thanks for stopping in!

    Rich - This article was something that I came up with on my own (and thanks for your compliments on my writing!).

    I can speak from first hand experience about the addictive nature of blogging. I think it comes down to vanity or the desire to see our name in lights.

    It is addictive for many. I think you will be surprised. The findings came from my interviews. I went into this project with no preconceived notions. The addiction angle is what everyone said.

    By the way, I am not the establishment, just a little blogger. And this article is not meant to discourage, but rather let people know what they might be in for.

    Thanks for your thoughts.

    MIke
  • Michael,

    You're obviously a good writer and an accomplished blogger, but this post/article seems more like it's written to fit an angle proposed by an editor.

    Yes, there are thousands of blogs coming online every minute, but the majority of them are spam blogs that are diluting the signal to noise ratio.

    Robert Bly, talented as he is, has always had negative things to say about blogging.

    While I agree that many bloggers--specifically business bloggers--don't know what they're in for, these "dangers" of blogging seem overstated. "Blogging can be as addictive as nicotine or alcohol?" Come on! Some people do have addictive personalities, but until I see the blogging patch, or a twelve-step process for BA (bloggers anonymous...'natch) I have to question that particular factoid.

    The "dark side" of blogging is a title that might be better reserved for when bloggers get involved in "group think" and attack a particular target, or online stalking, like has recently been reported.

    I always find it interesting when the "establishment," in this case popular bloggers, try to warn off newcomers with tales of how difficult and perilous the journey is.
  • Nice write-up Mike.

    Blogging can become addictive so it's good to know about the warnings beforehand.
  • Blogging sometimes is walking the thin line, struggling not to come to the dark side. Since a while my daughter is accusing me for being in front of the PC all the time. That really has a meaning!
    Situation is more difficult to us who are not pro bloggers and have a daily job. I often sacrifice my spare time for blogging, but try not to neglect my family and other obligations.
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